No one can make you feel inferior without your permission:
It is easy to blame how we feel on others. It allows us to
take the pressure of responsibility off for a while.
The problem with that is you have a choice in how you
perceive what is happening. And when you realize you have a choice in what you
make things mean, you realize you also have a choice in how you feel and how
you respond.
The next time a person or situation “makes you” feel small
take a look at what you made about it…and then make up a more empowering
meaning.
“No one can make you feel inferior without your
permission.” ~ Eleanor Roosevelt
Why is believing in yourself important?
If you believe in yourself, why should the opinion of someone
else matter to you or your self-value? Yes, it’s nice to have the approval of
certain people in your life, but if you don’t get it, you have to decide if you
believe in yourself, or if they (and their opinion of you) is more important.
Now I don’t want you to think that I feel that believing in
yourself means you ignore anything unflattering that others say. It just means
that if an idiot is talking, take the source into consideration when evaluating
what they say. If someone you trust has some constructive criticism, it doesn’t
mean you stop believing in yourself, but it might be time to reevaluate and
perhaps tweak some aspect of yourself.
Believe in your worth as a human being. Believe that you can
do things, and use the evidence of the things you have done to bolster that
belief. We might not be able to do everything right now, but given time and
effort and some help, there is little we cannot accomplish, eventually. Really,
you can do it, if you can believe in yourself.
Every story has two sides. Which will you believe about
yourself? I’m not talking about hiring a PR firm to help you put a positive
spin on things that didn’t work as well as you hoped. I’m talking about giving
more weight to the important lessons you learned from the experience, and how
you will use that insight the next time you try.
One way of looking at the event leads to feeling inferior.
The other helps you believe in yourself. Either way, the choice is yours and
yours alone. While that might sound a little bit silly, there really isn’t
anyone else who can decide that for you, unless you give your consent to them.
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